Question to all the women out there..........

ya serious single is good. at least for a while. and whiel beign single u can explore all ur options

all i want to meet is a girl who digs cars loves sports and has a good blue book value

thats awesome.

emphasis on the FOR A WHILE part, but neways its grimey, single people want companions, people that go out want the freedom of single life, well never be happy

yay friends with benefits , i cant imagine a world w/o that all hell would break loose

When it comes to relationships there is only one thing you can be sure about, and that is you can never be sure about anything lol

4 life, dawg

shout out to all the girls who give benefits!

ur my hero man, lol

i can't believe i just noticed this thread. most of the stuff has already been said.

here are some rules for you to follow when dating from the Leykis 101 rule book

- Don't speak to women you work with unless it's related directly to work. Don't date them. Don't tell them they look nice. Don't comment on anything except whatever work needs you have, because you're a walking lawsuit waiting to happen.

- Don't date a single mother. You already know her stance on abortion, she wont have one. Don't risk paying vaginamoney! PLUS, her kids will always come before you! Why would you want to be second place to some spoiled little brat!?!

- If you are not getting laid by the 3rd date, dump her and move on.

- Do not do what you don't want to do. You make the money, you decide where you are going and what you are doing.

- Never be in a committed relationship UNTIL you are really ready to settle down.

- Don't ask a women what she wants to do.

- Never tell a women how much money you make.

- Don't EVER date co-workers! Unless you don't give a rats ass about your job, stay away from people you work with! It's always asking for trouble.

- Never answer the phone, or go out on the weekend. Even if you really don't, you have to make it appear as though you have better things to do than be with her on the weekends.

- Never spend more than 40 bucks on a date. This includes buying gifts, flowers, candy, jewelry, etc. It does NOT help in getting laid. It's a waste of money. If anything, buy alcohol and get her drunk.

- NEVER approach a woman in a club who has her girlfriends with her. There is NO point, you will NOT get laid when women are in groups.

- No spooning, no cuddling, no staying over. Get in, get out! go back to her place that way you can make the excuse on why you have to leave

- NEVER answer the phone on the weekends. It makes you look like you have nothing better to do. Weekends should be reserved for hanging out with your buddies or for guaranteed sex. Even if you really have nothing to do, let the answering machine take the call. You're busy.

- Eat before you go out on a date. then when you go out to eat, just order a salad and mention you are watching what you eat. girls will never eat more then a man and you can save yourself money on the dinner

- Try and meet after the girl has had dinner. Ask her what time she is going to dinner and then say you will meet her for drinks after. ex. she says she has dinner at 8, tell her you will meet her at 10:30 for drinks

- if she answer the phone while at dinner. quietly excuse yourself and say you are going to restroom and leave her there. you paying for her attention that night and it is rude to answer the phone. it could her date for later that night in which he can come pick her up or be her babysitter in which you shouldn't be dating single mothers anyways

i am working on raising the blue book value of mine

ikonxone 4 president, again

thats right i forgot about leykis . that dude is a hero.!! answer the question!

we should all take a trip down to china and like go to one of those "buffet line" things man that be awesome

i always wanted me an asian girl there cute no matter what

lmaO that wuz toO funny !!!

bein sinqle is cute for a lil while. but i think after a while everyone just starts lookin for that "special one" (how korny), to make them feel all mushy inside and give em butterflies(even more korny). lmaoO.

okay so how about someone answering my question. why do we stay having the double standard? a guy can bang like a million girls its like " damnnn boy you a P.I.M.P, but if a girl stays doin that its like mannnn look at that nasty as hoe! girls are hoes, cuz guys are! i consider many guys hoes as well, just like girls . so tell me wats the difference please, besides that our dumbass society has made us think like that...

-melissa
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I think it all depends on what stage you are in for your life. I rarely give advice, but this is an area I cannot resist. First off, be yourself. What ever that is for you. The more you pretend, the more everyone will distance themselves from you. A lot of couples aren't in the same stage in life as each other. If you are in college or younger, chances are, most everyone is in the "get drunk, get laid" stage. No one is looking for a REAL realtionship. My advice, for people in that age bracket: get drunk, get laid. Even if you do find someone that you click with at that stage, you probably haven't gotten all your wild oats sewn yet. Or your partner hasn't. There really is nothing wrong with being a mess for a while, we all were. Not that I encourage casual sex, but seriously, have some fun!!! Get drunk and swing naked from the chandalier in that frat house, you'll enjoy it.

However, after you leave that stage (enjoy it while you can) move on to someone more mature. Make sure you are both FULLY out of that stage though. Just remember: "What happens in (fill in the blank) does NOT EVER stay in (fill in the blank)." If you see that either of you is not ready to move past that stage, then that relationship is not right.

A lot of the comments and examples I have seen suggested and discussed here are about people and situations still stuck in the "get drunk, get laid" stage.

I wouldn't recommend kissing anyone's ass. Treat your partner as an equal, that's what you want them to be after all, right? The whole addage "treat others as you want to be treated" is good in this situation. There are no rules, or formulas, to gain someone's adoration, just keep working towards it, when something fits, you'll know it.

By the way... the "get drunk, get laid" stage, when it ends, you can still get drunk, a lot. I just recommend getting drunk in the right company at that point.

I think there is also some confusion about being a "nice guy" and being a dorky little sniveling twit that can't stand up for himself or get the courage to approach a girl. No one should take anyone else's shit. Psychology has taught us that most people (male or female) are actually looking for someone CONFIDENT. You can be nice or "bad boy" confident. I like to think you should "be yourself confident".

oh through all this please dont get no1 pregnant!

IKONXONE FOR PRESIDENT FOR SURE MAN DAMN PPL LIKE U ARE THE ONES WE NEED TO RUN THIS COUNTRY LOL u got my vote man lol

HAHAHA NICE MAN woot woot GO T! GO T! lol, I took some girl out to lunch today that I met like 2 days ago and well I took her to my place and well u kno the rest.............

You know. I am pretty aloof about relationships. What ever makes em happy. BUT i will say this. If you are a nice guy, and your significant other leaves you for a "Bad Boy" and comes back to you when she gets hurt... I say give her 4 courtesy minutes and one to wipe her eyes so she can find the door.Then finish Fantasizing about Kristen Kreuk errrr watching "SmallVille". Just my opinion. They say women mature faster then men... I kinda agree. When they hit 16 they seem more mature.. but they don't tell you that they stay that way until they are 35.

16..?



That's really, really young..to most of us on the board, anyway.

im 17

thats what strippers are for

yea very tru lol........man when I started this thread I never thought it was gonna have this many replies lol.....but thanks for the responses people, learned a few things here and there.

:wstupid

Here are some interesting links:

http://www.stwing.upenn.edu/~jenf/writing/rant04.html

crap, I'm having trouble finding the other one. I never bookmarked it apparently I'm looking for it.

EDIT: ok, here's one i've found, not the same but similar idea. (the other one i'm looking for is better)
http://www.the-declaration.com/2000/02_10/features/asshole.shtml

wtf is that suppose to mean