Official Love/Crush etc thread

18-21 you just pin pointed it there for me thanks.

what if you like a girl and her best friend likes you Dr. Love haha

ok since we are on this topic I have a question. I went on a date with this girl I met online. We went to the movies and ended up kissing after the date was over. It was no friendly kiss on the cheek or peck in the lips, it was a full blown kiss. We are still talking almost everyday, but eveytime I ask her out, she's always busy with something. Granted I know she has alot of things going on but is this a sign that she doesn't like me anymore or am I just being paranoid?

Hm... STAY AWAY

very wise words indeed.

dont want to sound mean but what a bitch!

truth be told she is a bitch and every other word you could possibly think of.

How long have you been seeing her? and how would you say the way she acts when she's on the phone.

Been there done that, hehe

enjoy the situation, someone likes you

now this is an annoying situation. i understand you b/c you've spent time with her, developed some feelings for her, and all the sudden at the point where you're really 'feeling' the relationship shes unavailable. its definitely your call on what to do, but don't spend most of your time thinking about her. dont treat her especially nice or especially mean; keep it riiight in the middle. it'll all work out.

yeah I don't know what to do and it's just getting wiereder by the moment. my friends told me that if we did not go out again by the end of the month, to go ahead and forget it. I'm just confused right now. it's all a game and I hate playing games. I wish it was just straight forward rather than mind guessing what the other person is thinking.

Just tell her how you feel, but don't be too emotional or needy about it.

Be like "Hey I like doing things with you. You've been busy when I called you up. I would like to do more stuff with you but I'm not sure how you feel. I'm kinda feeling like you don't want to spend time with me. What's goin on?"

In your own coolish chilled out words make those points and ask that question.

Just be up front about it. Y'all are friends right?

Saying nothing at all IS worse that saying something and being a bit nervous.
You've got one life to live don't let some petty ish get in your way. Swallow hard and just start talking to the girl.

chicks like t mess with our minds so i put up with it.

you know what's funny, last night she imed me and invited me over. So I came overy and we chilled for a couple of hours. I put my arms around her and she seems fine with it, but we never really did anything else but talk. we ended up ending the night without a hug or kiss. I'm not sure about myself now. I'm having mixed feelings. I'm not so sure if I really like this girl or not anymore. I mean she's nice and all but it seems that I just lost my attraction to her. I just don't know.

STOP IT! Enough of this mixed feelings crap.
Just messin with ya.

You don't have to have your mind made up about her. If you just like spending time with her then do it. Just be her friend and see how things go. Just don't let yourself get all confused. Don't let yourself believe that your emotions are the truth. Just let the emotions flow and don't make any quick decisions. You be aight...

boo i want my money back i ended up goin to the best friends place and crashin at in her room. damn the world for room mates

yup they sure do..

its gotten to the point i give up

im gona become a monk or sumthin

crazy shit last night, I get a call at like 1 am from my ex ex ex ex gf who didn't call me for like 2 yrs and then she's like "oh hey what's going on blah blah blah, can u come over to my place I'm bored with a few friends" and I'm like "yea sure, I'll stop for a bit" didn't have shit to do last night so I show up and there's like 4 hot chicks that are her friends and I'm the only guy there so I'm like sweet start to a night.... time goes on talking, a few drinks, shots here and there and I'm starting to feel a little buzzed, this one chick starts kissing me and after a few seconds I'm full out making out with 2 of them and then my ex gf joined and after a good 20-30 mins of good making out I'm not gonna lie then my ex gf takes me up to her bedroom and I was about to do it but I backed off and just left home, wild night and well I feel like crap cause I'm "engaged" you know and even though I dk wether she's cheated on me yet or not I'd rather have the relationship end in a good note and not like in a bad one, I dk it was one crazy ass night.....

yea I know dood I feel like shit, well have been throughout the whole day today too damn I dk I thought I was never capable of such shit and well I was drinking and I'm not a very heavy drinker so that took me by surprise too and well at least it didn't get that far to risk being a fazher and shit.... I dk it was a very weird night for me but you were right all long and well another lesson learned lol

It sounds like you don't need to be in a serious relationship. You need to let everyone know that. You'll just end up hurting other people and yourself.
I think you should just have fun for a while and not get into anything too serious this early in your life.

Yea I talked to my girl and she kinda agrees so well single people from now on, oh and I also found out that she sort of cheated on me too so it was by both sides, I don't blame her having her 1,000+ miles away ain't my idea of love u know, that's just denying her the chance of being happy with someone up there

sure will next weekend .... I dk man for some reason I feel kinda good that I told her the truth plus well I am too young for sticking with someone FOREVA!!! uhuhuhuhu scurray though lol lol but well we'll see who I end up with in the end

argh! everyone should just get new girlfriends and if you're in my situation got out and find a new one.

Listen to yourself.

eh yea I know I'm plain confused lol I just want some

You just want to do what you feel is right ... and you just want to get some.

but there aint' no right now days man, girls are just looking for somethin quick and then bye so why shouldn't I?

actually, cuztom, you've got a lot to learn man. there are so many Different types of girls looking for different things even if they respond initially to the same sort of 'game', they might have different expectations for a 'relationship'. just depends what your looking for as to what you'll get.


side note: dont break a good girls heart though, or try not to, because you'll definitely regret it. that's something thats hard to forgive yourself for, because Eventually it catches up to you... eventually

yea true so then LET THE LEARNING BEGIN!!!!!

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