Official Love/Crush etc thread

Official Love/Crush etc thread

Well I think that most but not all people of course feel comfortable when talking about their love's frustrations, pains etc so post it up here if you'd like to discuss it with the board, just an option ur not forced to do it.

fo sho.

fell in love wit a girl in HS, she graduated and left. never even did get a chance to say good bye

i think you did. she was the one that 1st came up and talk to me. thats when i fell in love lol. but i was too dumb to say anything and frgin scared to talk to her. i regret it too... damn im fcukin stupid :chair:

...you do realize there will be others, right?

fo sho, i do. but this was the 1st time that im series about it. others i just play around wit. didnt really feel so emo. with others i knew.

Well this is the thing..... even though I'm only 17 I've had enough fun already man, it's time for me to settle, I'm a more mature kind of a person plus the girl that I'm with right now you don't find too often now days. We're engaged but of course we're not going to let love get in between our future with our careers and stuff, so both of us are going to finish college and stuff and from there on we'll talk about wedding material. What I love about this girl is that she's everything that I've looked for... she's astonishingly beautiful, has tons of self-respect, knows her priorities, good sense of humor, she's from my country and she's mature. I met her at a mall here, at first I was way freakin scared to go talk to her (natural guy chicken instincts lol) and well I decided to just go talk to her and well she told me that she was in town just for visit and all that stuff and well I asked her if she wanted to have dinner with me and she agreed so that was a good first step. Then when she had to go she said that I've been really nice with her and that I was one of the nicest guys she's ever met in her life, so even though she left I was glad because I left a good impression on her. A year later I go to visit her and she tells me that she was falling for me and stuff and at the moment I was too, we have so much in common, so much trust and respect is crazy to even believe. Her parents love me, they say that I'm an easy guy to work around with and that I'm trust worthy so that's another plus. Some might think that it's way too early for me to settle down but if you were in my place I bet that you'd bed to differ

eh I dk man what u say is true but we'll just see what life and time brings man, for now I'm staying how I am. On college I bet things are really tempting and well life might take a turn there but dk about that yet.... I guess we'll just have to wait and see lol

I might as well post my story here too

I've been with the same girl for 8 months, and its scary, but we both feel like each is the one... we've both had relationships before, and a few serious ones, but we both feel something that we never felt before...

I've already been to college, she's in University right now (doctor), a few months ago we started talking our future... marriage, kids, a house, etc... it's weird, i've never felt comfortable talking like that before her... and she says the same...

And this is the first relationship where the longer we're together, the more feelings I have for her, the more I miss her when we're not together, the more, uhmm, yah ...

I don't know, I hope she's the one, I can honestly say I love her and plan on being with her until im old and gray...

oh ho.. i though you said old and gay lol

lol... you never know what will happen when I get old and senile...

fo sho, we're gonna grow old and gay lol.

Yes sir, life is always changing the script on people

and i never gets to be king lol

Started dating a girl about two years ago, she went from slut to christian good girl. We broke up, and I started dating one of her friends... still dating her, been about 7 months I think. I'm 19 going on my sophomore year at a Junior College.

let's see I was with my ex for 2 yrs and 9 months then shit just hit the ceiling. I went to go and pick up my diploma and one of my friends called me. I turned around and i saw her kissing her ex right in front of me and when i answerd she just froze and stayed like that for a couple of seconds. My friends and i were shocked. I turned back around and i went to picks up my diploma and she kep t saying she was sorry and i just ignored her all the way though while walking to my car. I got in and took off. About a month ago i saw her and she came up to me asking for forgiveness. She was pregnant and with his kid. That just pissed me off even more. The she saw the papers of my contract for the armed forces and then she really wanted for me to be with her. about 1 hr later she called to my cell phone and asked that i be the kids father. She had not told him anything that it was his. She told him that it had belonged to me, which was not true. She requested that i go over to the family and tell them that it was mine so that they can get off her case and have her admit to them that it was indeed his. She still wants this. yes i still have feeling for her and she has been the only person that i have ever truly loved but i just can't think and live with the fact that she lied to me and cheated on me. When we started dating i told her if you find someone else then go and be happy but never cheat on me or do things with another guy in front of me. I did not mind her doing and hanging with her friends who are guys but she took it too far that day. I preferred her telling me in person and breaking up with me than to go and do that. What do you all think?

wow..yeah..i say do not go back to her cuz if she did it once, she will do it again. to top it off..a baby is involved. ok so she hasn't told the real father yet? i think that she at least needs to fess up to that FIRST.

and of course...she noticed that u are going to the armed forces..just making her think that she and the baby will be well taken care of..basically taking advantage...i say find a girl that is your TRUE LOVE and then give her what you guys both deserve.

i have been looking but trying to find one that is intelligent and supportive is what i am looking for. I want a girl that is stong enough that can support herself regardless of the situation and to find happiness in what she desires. Just looking for one that can do that is what i want. Also an education and a good head on her shoulders. Is that too much to ask?

okay i don't really want to think what exactly you are saying. If you're thinking bad is not what i meant. I want her to be able to think very well under extreme circumstances.

its cool you just caught me at a bad time yesterday.

HILARIOUS E! Guys, I think the situation today has to do with too many of us guys being unable to correctly and positively meet women, and then if we do meet women; we get too serious too young. rule 1, if you're scared to go talk to girls, TALK TO EVERY GIRL YOU SEE UNTIL YOU ARE NO LONGER SCARED. And its okay if you find yourself intimidated, because most decent guys are. The ones who fuck and leave girls are the kinds who go up and introduce themselves and run the perfect 'game.' You can still have 'game' and not be an asshole. Too many guys nowadays, good guys, aren't going after what they want. Stop watching them pass you by, talk to lots and experience life before you regret it when you get older. Of course you catch feelings, but atleast Try not to fall too fast or fall for one that isn't right for you. Trust me.

:yeadat: I agree with you man, I used to be like that shy and scurred as a motherflick to go talk to girls but after a while you get used to it.

I have no problem at all but there is is one thing that every person has to be careful about expecially down here and those are STD's its rare if you find a person such as myself that is clean and does not have anything. Anyway my ex still wants me back and i told her that i do not want to have anyhing to do with her.

STDs aren't a problem if you don't have sex, or get tests done regularly(and have your partner get tested, as well).

i'm paranoid, at this point...i ask a guy if he's been tested recently, and can provide proof. if he can, then i'm significantly more comfortable. if he gets nervous about it, his butt is gone. Mike and i are waiting till tests are back for both of us before we get into the sexual side of things...mostly to set our own minds at ease, than anything else. we each "know" we're clean, but better safe than sorry.

Damn, where did romance go!

I agree that 17 is way too young to start thinking seriously about any relationship, but I think from the ages of 18-21 is the most dangerous age in a man to fall into a bad romantic situation. I am not sure what it is with most guys at this age that all they want to do is get hitched. I know I went through this stage, and I almost did. Luckily it did not happen cuz if not I think I would be divorced right now.

I am older and wiser now thanks to the many experiences, and I look back at my younger years and I can only think one thing "WTF was I thinking back then!"

Happy now, and I think it is better to enjoy your younger years with as many different people as you can than to settle down too early and get all serious.

And when you are young, e_andree, it definitely pays to get one that "gives good head" cuz when you get older it may not be as easy or fun!

My 2c's -- enjoy your life as your age dictates, and you'll have enough time to get all serious and married later on. You'll be a better adjusted grown up.