News Broke up with gf of 2 years

Broke up with gf of 2 years

I have a bad case of love indigestion. My and my gf of 2 years broke up yesterday because she eventually didn't have the same feelings for me. She still loves me, but isn't in love with me, if that makes any sense. She just doesn't think see me as her husband in the future and wants to go out and explore what's out there. She said she wants to leave her options open since we're only 23. Everything was going fine. She just busted this out on me. I hate Mondays. I texted her and she called back tonight and we talked about our times and got a sense of closure. I felt fine, but then when I tried to go to sleep, I couldn't help thinking about her still. I treated her really well, so in the back of my mind I'm hoping she'll date some horrible guys and realize how good she had it and come back. I know that probably won't happen and that I should just take it like a man and keep moving on. Please leave feedback. I'm just so devastated.

has happened to me so many times....

it sucks, it always sucks, no more hunger, you can't sleep, work performance dives to below 0... depression

I don't even fall in love anymore, eventually I'll snap back into it though.

yup...just usually takes a little while.

sorry to hear, it'll pass with time.

sorry to hear that man.......hopefully things will work out for the best. maybe it's not meant to be...but if it is, she'll end up in your hands again. don't take it to hard on yourself dude.....play some WII or PLAYSTATION

Damn.. that sucks homie.. It is hard to lose someone that you have been with for such a long time.. But take all the positives out of that relationship and move forward. Eventually the heart ache will pass and you will move on. Good luck with your journey. You are still very young there are tons of women and tons of new things to explore.

Yeah, I have to move forward. If these feelings of loss are already this painful, I can't even imagine how it would feel when attending a funeral or a close one. And yes, I'll definitely be distracting myself of this as much as possible. I did just buy a PS3. But, I won't be dating anyone for a while. I need a little cool down time. I would hate to make the next girl a rebound.

all good information.

but just think, there are a million other women out there who would love for you to treat them with honor and respect. if the EX didnt know how good she had it, well thats her loss not yours.

yeah, it DOES suck...for some reason, it mostly happens to me though....after time, that hurt will numb out....you have to do what's right for yourself first. well, at least you're still young and can make something of yourself instead of having a girl bring you down. Find your path in life first (career) so you know that you are set in the future. deal with the harder stuff later.

Yeah, this is a tough time considering she broke it to me 2 weeks before finals. And I'm one more semester from getting my Cell Biology B.A.

But as many have told me, women just don't seem to like good treatment. They want to be treated like crap, hence why wifebeater husbands can do all they want and still keep coming back. I just can't treat women that way. Does anyone notice this too?

well..not me..that's why i left my ex he didn't beat me, but he treated me like crap (flirted with his exes, ignored me, etc) ...i figured that since i was with him for 4 years and was living with him, he would change..but of course, that was wrong.

now i'm happily married to my husband and everything is going great.

Don't let ANYBODY bring you down. It is indeed hard but one way or another you'll find your own way to back up.

SO I guess you're free this Sat? TORC baby!!!

Lol...what a way to cheer him up! Going out should be fun

your still young man, keep your head up and enjoy life. don't let problems put you down.

Or you can come over to my house and play Mario Kart. Just Don't throw my controller at the TV.

by her saying "She still loves you, but isn't in love with you" means she already found someone else. if you were the "nice guy" then remember nice guys finish last. she sounds right for leaving options open at 23. too many relationships and marriages end in divorce from being too young. just get over it and move on. there are more woman in the world then men so you have more options. just finish school first.

i was thinking of that too, but i didn't want to mention it...

that sounded like my life 8 years ago (im old :sad you know what i did? worked hard, concentrated on my hobby cars & racing. i build my race car, got a house then invited her on the house blessing to rub it in. besides from what your saying she already found another guy, she's just putting you down gently. dued your 23yrs old this is the time to be a bachelor, if your still at home with your parents get out that showed you moved on with your life. if the grass is greener on the other side cross go to the other side, i have a wife now & very happy with my life...

Yeah, thanks guys. I'm moving on with my own life. She didn't find anyone though. I assumed that too from all the signs, but it's not true.

btw, thanks for the invite DrunkSaru. I got your text msg while I was in class. I'm actually doing ok. I'm not hurting. I just feel empty and indifferent. I have enough mindset still to complete my finals. We can hang after the term is over! I need to check out Mario Kart.

anytime

Sorry to hear to man, time will heal everything thou. That and a PS3 or a couple sets of tires....

Sorry to hear she was cheating on you and left you for another guy .... :xmas:

Sorry to hear that dude. I might feel that way too in the near future...

I talked to her today to get some closure. I feel a little better now. She told me that we had just gotten too comfortable around each other and the spark in the relationship just died. It's tough for me since I have a busy school schedule, so there was nothing I could do about it. A mutual friend of ours called me and told me not to worry about the break up and that my now ex needs the summer break to think it over.

sucks to hear bro,

i'm no relationship expert, too fucking complicated!!! But I've been there, just take it a day at a time, get through finals, go out and chill with your buddies afterwards.. worst thing to do is to be alone because all you'll do is think about her..

And look at the bright side, now that you don't have to worry about taking her out/ spending money on her you'll get your WRX in half the time.

haha very true. Actually one of the things I'm going to do first is get a new suspension for my Corolla so that I can finally go to an autocross event!

she already found somebody else but she wont tell because thats how girls are,i know by experience.

I had a long talk with her today. She hasn't found anyone. She just wants her space. Our relationship had been going dull after we got into routines.

i've known relationships where time spent apart for a while made the relationship stronger.. one couple in mind just got married last weekend. So you never know. things may turn out good again. unless you find someone better before.. hehe

btw i thought you already had good enough suspension?