*crawls back under rock*

the part of having time with family it's okay but damn never leave ur girl behind mostly someone that you will marry.... damn sorry to hear that though, hopefully things will work out for the best...

*crawls back under rock*

scratch that whole house shit i was talking about earlier, cause my fiance and i just just broke it off. fucking russian

dayum dude sorry to hear about that man....

Well - details, then. Why did you guys break it off??

it's complicated. i guess it was just never meant to be, even though it was so perfect. i was jealous a lot because of his sister, who was always around, could never do any wrong and always got away with behavior that i would get berated for. and i guess once he was able to get all the things he did for us, like house and other things for us to be comfortable, he felt in his mind that having those things was all i needed in order to know he loved me. he stopped taking me out and other sweet things that he used to do. he generally dedicated all his free time to his friends and to his mother and sister which yeah, made me jealous as shit, so i would be simmering on that and we would get into huge blowout arguments over stupid shit, like who forgot to lock the house door, or who forgot to let the dog out. it's completely unfixable now and now way we can ever get back together. he took my ring back, and his stupid whore sister had to open her mouth to me and so i comletely went off on her and told her what a selfcentered stupid bitch she is.

i just wish i could meet a good guy who wouldn't forget who helped him along and loved him all the way to his goals once he got there. i have nothing to look forward to in my life now. we had so much planned, things that i never even wanted until i met him and then i wanted those things only with him and no one else. like to settle down and have a family life. i wanted a home to make him comfortable in, i wanted his last name and i wanted to have his babies. but what the fuck do i have now. i have no where to go of my own. i'm staying at a friend and her fiance's house. i have none of my things, they're all at nicks. i don't have my kitties or my doggie. all i have is a sack of dirty clothes and my computer. i dont know where i'll be 2 months from now and i dont know if i'll ever find another man i can trust or even one that would love me back if i did trust them. my head and my eyes ache from crying and i havent had a decent nights sleep in a week

are those enough details for everyone

i know...i've been there. repairing from the breakup with D was pretty f'in hard...but i know you can do it.

feel free to get in touch with me if you need to vent to a female who's totally removed from the situation.

yeah, hopefully. it just serves me right for believing that someone could love me and want to care for me that much. HAH!

damn girl

that sucks.


come to MD, i'm sure we could find you a place up here.

hey i'm russian! nothing wrong with most of us

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Don't feel guilty, maybe someone much better is meant for you down the road.... these are things of life that happen and that are too common now days... cheating and up and leaving is an everyday thing.... keep ur head up and keep steppin forward strong girl, we're wit ya!

you'd be surprised how many USEFUL men there are out there. it seems like you're better off WITHOUT this one. just take your time, repair from this, and you'll find him eventually.

thanks girl, i'm gonna try my hardest but its so hard right now to have faith in anything

i'm sorry. j/k <img src="http://vvti.net/forums/images/smilies/smile.gif" border="0" alt="" title="Smile" /><br />
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i'm sure your fine, just as long as you don't hold seperate sets of standards for old family and new family<br />
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if i met another guy from russia (or any other place for that matter) i wouldn't judge them. i actually became really excited about being a part of that, sharing the culture and customs. that will be a part of my life i will never stop missing

Girl, you're young, gorgeous, and you have a beautiful personality. You have plenty of time to find the guy that will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Think of it this way; can you imagine finding out he was a total jerk after you married, settled down, and had kids?

Don't give up faith in us guys just yet, there are plenty of us good ones left.

Sorry to hear that, hope everything works out.

seems like you found a momma's boy no offense.. If he is a 1st generation american they have extremeley tight ties to their family (Im talking immigrant all kinds not just german). And they have a hard time picking one over the other but if he dropped you like that then its his loss..

You seem like a great person and although your heart is broken you need to pick up the pieces and try again! No reason to give up cuz you found one asshole!

Try to get your stuff back and although this sounds mean if you helped him in purchasing the house or other items then id say screw him and get everything I could out of it! I mean if he is going to drop you this easily without a fight then you might as well make it hard for him as well!

yeah he's only been here for about 4 years. i should've know that an american girl would never please him.

as for property, i don't have any ownership of the house or anything, i just helped pay towards the mortgage and bills every month. i went over there today to get my cats and some other things and i took his $250 leather jacket that i bought him. i have no idea what the fuck i'll do with it. anyone want a leather jacket? the only thing if anything i'm enjoying slightly about this is seeing what he's living like now that i'm not there and my things are slowly disappearing. like that all he has in his fridge that he's eating now is hotpockets. and as soon as i get a truck rented to move the rest of my things, he's not going to have any livingroom furniture, no bed, no sheets. my joy in this will be shortlived though i'm sure, because i know his next step now is probably to have his mom and sis move in with him, and then he'll have all their furniture, and he'll have mommy and sissy to clean up after him and cook him fresh meals

a - sell the jacket on eBay.
b - be happy you're rid of him. he's apparently got a LOT of baggage(like a mother and sister who coddle him). YOU are better off without him. might not seem like it now, but you'll realize it later on.

yes, you ARE better off without him, i used to be in the same situation (not exactly, but similar). my ex was (probably stil is) a mommy's boy and everything and it's been a lil over a year since we broke up and he STILL wants to get back together, 4 years with him and that's all that i got....pissed, yes i was, but i'm over it now and in a better place now. just be glad that you didn't have a kid with him. you can start all over now and find something or someone to keep u sane.

and yes, sell that jacket...better off getting cash for it than just giving it away, get SOMETHING out of it.

That's not good... He must not have listened the bunch of times you quietly talked to him about it before you had this huge argument huh?

Sorry to hear that it's happened and that you guys aren't compatible. You just gotta find a guy that isn't clingy to his folks and treats you right. There's always going to be imperfections, so saying he was perfect is well fantasy.

You'll find someone again that will fit into your jigsaw puzzle that is you. Unique and beautiful, needing to be completed.

well that's obvious, ofcourse. i mean he was perfect in the sense that all of our interests matched (which i don't find in many people), but ofcourse there are going to be imperfections, and ofcourse there will be rough spots and misunderstandings. he was just not willing to work them out anymore

Ahhh.... I see...

i'm russian too. and i treat my gf like a princess. although i do admit i know some not-so-nice russians.

sorry to hear.. iam sure you will find somebody

ur good looking enough that iam sure u can find another man

haha, wtf, should i be frightenned?? j/k

that's kinda crazy dude. what's up with dreams about me being pregnant?! a couple months ago before nick and i broke up i had a really weird dream that i was pregnant and later in the dream i had it and it was a little girl and we named her Alilya. that's what made me decide to stop smoking

STOPIT DREAMS, STOPIT! lol