News Got caught cheating I guess.

haha..good one..

...except that its illegal...

I like how he says "just dont be doin shit if you can't control yourself on it yet.". Personally I would try to avoid substances that you need to learn how to Control yourself when your on them I once had a friend that swore up and down that he could drive better when he was drunk because he was relaxed, then one day he rear ended a family and landed his ass in Jail for DUI, and the funniest part is he claims that Alcohol had nothing to do with him rear ending the lady, he claims his brakes failed. Anything to protect the habbit I guess

What kind of research did you have in mind? I thought growing up around pot heads was good enough reseach but I must be mistaken

Just some food for thought: (I know we're getting off topic, but not really)

http://www.well.com/user/woa/fspot.htm
[Public Service Announcement]

"The strength of today's marijuana is as much as ten times greater than the marijuana used in the early 1970s. This more potent marijuana increases physical and mental effects and the possibility of health problems for the user."

"Studies of marijuana's mental effects show that the drug can impair or reduce short-term memory, alter sense of time, and reduce ability to do things which require concentration, swift reactions, and coordination, such as driving a car or operating machinery."

"Long-term regular users of marijuana may become psychologically dependent. They may have a hard time limiting their use, they may need more of the drug to get the same effect, and they may develop problems with their jobs and personal relationships. The drug can become the most important aspect of their lives."

aaaaaand...

"How does marijuana affect driving ability?
Driving experiments show that marijuana affects a wide range of skills needed for safe driving -- thinking and reflexes are slowed, making it hard for drivers to respond to sudden, unexpected events. Also, a driver's ability to "track" (stay in lane) through curves, to brake quickly, and to maintain speed and the proper distance between cars is affected. Research shows that these skills are impaired for at least 4-6 hours after smoking a single marijuana cigarette, long after the "high" is gone. If a person drinks alcohol, along with using marijuana, the risk of an accident greatly increases. Marijuana presents a definite danger on the road."

live and let live

James, can you elaborate a little more on "if they don't infringe on others rights"? What exactly does this mean?

I told ya!................Pimpin Aint Easy!!!!!!!!!!!

Just to steer it back on topic - just chalk this one to experience. Sure it will hurt for awhile (assuming that you had a decent relationship with her - 10 month time frame). Could be that little separation that many need to strengthing future relationships or repair this one. I'm not to pass judgement on which is at fault - relationships generally cannot be quantitatively defined into simple clear regions (ie. people and relationships are complex - no two situations will ever be the same or can be explained by any one person). Just wait until you get married and have kids and you will see what I mean. Don't worry - you'll do just fine.

why exaclty do you smoke weed James?

How much does it cost you daily or weekly?

I guess I'm one of those smokers who keep my grades up still while doing it almost daily. I do make sure I'm sober for work or any other important things. Well as for my relationship we still see each other everyday when we can and still talk everynight. I guess its just one of those wrong time wrong place situations. She's still pissed for sure, but atleast there's still a slim chance of it getting better day by day. She even said to me that its not all my fault too and she says its her fault also, but I don't know how that could be. I was just tripping really bad during the first couple of days after cause I never experience this kind of crap. Right now I'm just focusing on school and work and trying to fix my relationship. We did say to each other that we have some F'd up friends. As for smoking weed. Do what ever cause we all die someday. Also from my highschool like 75% of the people smoke it and the top 20% of the class has like 4.0 and higher and I know for a fact alot of them smoke it. I guess this what happens when you have totally nothing to do and make the forums into a soap opera.

Oh ya Rock on James