News Got caught cheating I guess.

Got caught cheating I guess.

Damn I've had a really shitty new years ever lately. First I get kicked out of the house for a couple of days and get a speeding ticket. After I got all that shit taken cared off my fucking girlfriend's friend decides to try and rape me and saduce me into trying to get with her because I was upset about my girl. I go to her house to chill and talk and smoke some of that green stuff if you know what I mean. Next thing is she throws me down her bed and starts feeling on me and sucking on my neck. I was like get off of me and I'm still with my girl. I kinda played along ,but nothing to endanger my relationship at all for a bit cause I was aggrevated at her for trying to make me get with her. I made her think I was gonna actually do it, but I really wasn't go to cause I'm just teasing her cause she's a bitch for trying and I was just trying to make her think she could have something that she couldn't. Then for some crazy ass reason my girlfriend shows up right as I was about to leave and my pants where unbuttoned cause of the girl trying to get with me and gets all pissed off. I tried to explain myself, but she sees this hickey I got on my neck and she just said its over.

So after a great relationship of 10 months I lost it all over some dumbass bitch thinking she could get with me and to make it worse is that she's a friend of my girlfriend well I guess ex-girlfriend now. So this year has been really shitty for me. On your guys opinion was I even cheating cause that's what she said I did and won't see me or hear from me again.:sad:

You didn't stop it even though you had the chance, no sympathy from me... and the timing seems awfully convenient, i'll bet you we're set up man...

yea..that sounds like a setup. either way, you did have a chance to end it. You shouldn't have gone back to her place at all.

Don't ya know that smoking with someone who likes you will just make things turn out the way they did with you?

ya I did really fuck up things. I wished I took action alot sooner cause when I finally did it was too late. I didn't realize I crossed the boundaries and I'm kicking myself in the ass for that. I also realize her friend was probably trying to make end my relationship or something cause I'd go talk to her about my girl and she'd talk shit about her. Well I talked to my girl for like an hour and told her I loved and tried to explain myself. I hope I got through to her cause I've done alot things in my life for this girl and I just can't believe her friend would end up causing it to end. Maybe I'm an asshole after all cause the reason I let the go on for a bit cause I wanted that girl to think she could have something she couldn't and the leave her the fuck off you know. Well that was just wrong of me and dammit it hurts. Today I'm gonna try to figure out what to do and hopefully and can fix everything cause I've pretty much lost everything almost already this year when my parents kicked me out and shit. Dammit and when finally I think everything is looking up and I get my car back even more shit happens.

I agree with e....you may have been trying to tease her and ultimately end with the girl thinking that way, but like james said, if you caught ur girl doing that with another guy and she told u that she just wanted to esculate the situation to a certain point then kill it, would u honestly believe her? Ya messed up there pretty bad bro. never allow a chick to think that she can have u, allow her to attempt to seduce u, then give her the fuck off card. It never works and shit hits the fan from there on hardcore...

What he did was wrong...but my next question is...was it a setup. If it was, then I put some type of blame on the girl for not communicating with him and making this a bigger deal then it is. If it was a setup, then she issues with him to begin with and she should have talked to him about how she feels instead of making things worse on that end. Homeboy just f*cked it up and played along..lol.

I vote that it was a setup

i vote that he was dumb for going over there and smoking the green stuff in the first place.

i vote that you are an idiot for even posting that.

i sound mean but DAMN.."show her something she can't have"? are you kidding me?

Let me get this straight: you were at her house, smoking weed, you went to her bed room, she tried to "rape" you, and all the doors in the house were locked. and the door in the bedroom opens, and your ex enters? explain that please.

Whether it was a setup or not is irrelevant. He basically admitted 'guilt' in the original post..

no one is saying he is right for what he did. He did wrong and he admits it. But don't you find it wrong for a girl to setup a guy regardless if he does something or not? Isn't that a bit messed up on her part?

Very fucked up

ya it is really all fucked up. I don't know what the fuck is up with everything anymore cause my girl was really pissed and still is, but earlier today she called me up to see her. I go meet up with her and she talks to me about her car or something for a bit then all of a sudden we were at this store buying a ceramic bong.:superconf After we got it we smoked out of it with some friends than I dropped her off for work. So I'm kinda confused cause she hangs out with this girl alot and I'm hoping they actually didn't try to set me up cause this is all very crazy to me.

disfunctional group? lol. thats what its starting to sound like..lol.

btw...ya'll need to stop smoking..DUI is worse then this shit. So you're just making urself look worse here...quit while ur ahead...

Woah, not even going to touch this one.

while it's a bit extreme, i can see it an interestingly effective way of getting indeniable proof one way or the other...but only if he's given her reason have no trust in him. we don't know the entire scope of their relationship, so we have no way of knowing if he's screwed up before.

Dude, stop doing drugs. I'm no expert, but that might be a small part of your problems...

if any guy has given any girl any reason to not trust him (Vice Versa), then they shouldn't be together.

bah. that's the EASY way out, silly.

while i agree, i also understand why a girl would do it. she trusts him...immensely...then one day he fucks up and loses her trust. she still loves him and wants to be with him, but doesn't trust him...she wants some way of knowing she can trust him again.

he failed that test...miserably.

lilbit, [snickers] What was I thinking?

I think its pretty crazy how people that do drugs don't realize the problems it brings. They will justify every other possibility on earth before finally confronting the obvious cause. Crazy i tell ya! CRAZY!

silly man.

ya man you guys are right. LOL I guess I should just keep myself busy with my car and other things then. I think that will be a good ideaa. But honestly I'm all confused with this thing and just trying to walk away from these crazy people.:sad:

Hey man, we all screw up. Just admit to yourself that you did, and don't rationalize it. From there you can start the long journey of improving the decisions you make. Its never too late to change, if you want to.

ain't nothin wrong with smoking weed eh? I guess if your job doesn't require you to be a thinker I supose its "OK" :>