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Break ups suck!

Man guys I'm just feeling so low. After been with my GF everday for 7 months we ended it today. I told her our relationship has been not there and we aren't helping each other out like a good couple and stuff. I asked her if she could see us be together longer and she said know and we broke it off. I have never loved anyone as I did with her and I just don't know what to do with my life now fellas. I got nothing to make me happy anymore and my car not running is not helping. What do you guys do after breaking up in a serious relationship cause I need all the help I need. I in tears for crying out loud.

After I broke up with my girl, working on my car was the only thing that really helped me deal with it and eventually get over it. Talk to new girls, but unless you find someone that you really care about, the only thing that will help is time.

that... and i think the party with close friends will also be a big help... coz to me, being with my closest friends seem like there's nothing more i need to have... thats why after i broke up with someone from the philippines, i find that i fell much better single and just party on...

in my opinion...mainly time will heal it. Just try not to think about her and just go on about your life. we all go through those times, hell I might be going through those times soon myself. The best thing is just to be around your friends or family. Being alone is not the best thing for you right now.

Just chill man, take it slow and like 7m said dude time will heal it up...... it's all about patience and stuff man, first couple of weeks SUCK ASS believe me cause I've been there cause all you think about is her BUT as time goes on your mind stays busy with other things and such and as time goes by it'll be better

Same thing happened to me, the only thing I did different is several minutes after the breakup I about had a heart attack and realized that I was being a dip shit and went back and appologized and begged for her to come back. And then I married her, and then a year passed, and I'm happier then I could have ever been without her. So my advice is that if it effects you this much that might be a sign that this thing isn't ready to end. Give it some deep thought.

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ya I'm just so bummed cause it was going so great and recently just went down hill and we went through so much in our relationship. It's hard for me to not think about her cause I see her in class everyday and her cloths are at my house still. I just wish I have my car running to keep me happy. I just feel alone and feel like nothing motivates me in life. I can't wake up anymore waiting to see somebody and hang around. I'll try to get over it I'm just trying to figure out what to do cause I don't know me anymore. I don't know what keeps me happy anymore.

well i think if you guys both truly cared bout one another then you'll end up together in no time.... thats what happend to me .. we talked a week after and settled our differences aside and made up ... because theres no perfect relationship you gotta work it out if your relationship and the other person are really worth it ... but if you guys dont get back there the ways you guys felt wasnt mutual .. one could move on and the other couldnt ... its weird most of the time in relationships one cares for the other more than the other and thats what killed my relationships .. i dont know if i made sense but yea LOL good luck

you'll make it man. either path you go, you'll always be ok. it just takes time on one path and the other path will be an instant mood lifter. either way you choose to go, I wish you luck! it's a hard time now, but you'll make it through..

You guys probably know why I'm up at 5 in the morning. It's weird though cause she cared more for me for the most part of the relationship, but the past 2 months that reversed even though I just kept it steady. I'm just having a depression in life and everything has been screwing up, and I guess she couldn't handle me that way cause I haven't been myself. Sucks though cause I'm so damn depressed and I feel really empty and no one to turn to for comfort.

after my break up with an ex, I jumped out of a window....not high enough to kill me, but enough to hurt me to realize that there is more to life than just having a girlfriend. So I got up had a party and meet new people.

hold up...7 months?
i still consider that a dating period.

but regardless, get a grip. there is so much more to life, and if you don't move on, you will miss everything.

yeah, 7 months isn't really THAT long....

i mean, it took me 4 years to realize that my ex wasn't the one for me. he was also acting different and not himself, but being me, i ignore it and pretend that it will all go away....and im never the one to ask questions, i believe that if he wants to tell me something, he will tell me, so i was trying to be patience.....that took about 1 1/2 years and i finally had the gut to leave him and parent's his house....i really didn't want to, but i realized that staying wouldn't make things better, it would either be the same or worse, and i was already getting pissed at him every other day. and AFTER i moved out with my belongings, he decides that he wants to get back and was sorry that he didn't stop me....but you know what, he SAW me moving stuff out and WATCHED....if he couldn't say it in front of my face at that time, then it wasn't right. and of course, since i was with the guy for that long, there was other things and habits that came with him that was annoying the crap outta me (ex. extreme mommy's boy).

but you guys have only been with each other for 7 months, so you still have A LOT to learn about the other person. you can't know everything yet.

so in reality....if one person in the relationship thinks that a break up is best, then let it be, maybe that person just needs to find herself/himself. if it was really meant to be, he/she will come back to you and realize that you are the one and will try and make it work, other than that, focus on something else. go out with friends ...hang out for a bit....motivate yourself to think about other things than her.....or better yet....another guy/chick...

well we talked things out and it was a mutual break up. We still want to continue a relationship, but we took things way too fast and that screwed it up. We figured out we start over and just start dating again. If it doesn't work well I've tried my best and just move on. By the way ladies I'm 5'11" and I'm an asian guy looking for somebody.

see....u sound fine...and already "advertising" urself...haha...just keep ur head up, something/someone good will find you.

how old are you?

not necessarily speaking on your situation but i see way too many young people taking things too seriously too soon... sure if u find "the one" thats great, but if u dont, dont stress it, your young! have fun, go out, take advantage of the freedom you still have while you can use it to its full extent

yes, man, unless you've correctly assessed your own maturity and status in life you dont really need a girl. some guys are ready when theyre young to commit, and I'm not that familiar with the asian culture, but many guys I hang around with just arent ready. and those that pretend they are and get married, really pay the consequences. Man, enjoy yourself, she was a great experience, continue to pursue her friendship, and Many others at the same time. thats true enjoyment, and there's nothing wrong with it.

Ya, I realized I put myself into a situation that I wasn't ready for and we took it too far too fast. We both agreed we are gonna start over again and just date for a while, but I'm gonna try to move on at the same time cause I think its just not worth hanging on. We both agreed just take it slow and hopefully it gets back to the way it was. If not we can slowly seperate ourselves and become friends. It's been hard and I got alot of things to look forward to now cause I'm now gonna focus on starting my own business working on cars hopefully.

Oh thanks for understanding guys even though we don't really know each other personally, but I feel like this community is close and can help any problems from cars and others. You guys are great and soon I'm gonna represent again with my car running and owning people with the rolla.

yes, and when you put that fast engine in, race some s2g's and beat them so i can hear some bitching on my site about how some souped up civic raped them. I'd love it!
nah, but for real, you got a good idea man, its always good to stay on good terms with the girl you had feelings for for a long time. it makes things just feel better; if you want to talk to her you can, no worries about hurt feelings or the whole 'messy breakup' thing. good stuff