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Discussion in 'Off Topic' started by bennyboi9, Apr 27, 2010.

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    Salty_Dog Old Fart

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    Not necessarily. It depends on where he lives and what the laws are there. Generally speaking, if one party is an adult and the other is a minor you can run into problems. But there can be exceptions depending on where you live.
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    FolkenStrategos Well-Known Member

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    Are you seriously taking life advice from half wits like "ikon" and "andree"? Shouldn't you be talking to your parents and family about this serious issue? I don't care if I sound like a douche berry or whatever, but someone has to say it. All atheist = half wits, and THAT grinds my gears, lmao.
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    DeebsTundra Big Tires :)

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    You don't sound like a "doucheberry." You sound like an uneducated, ignorant jackass. The issues brought up in the OP was never "serious." He was asking an opinion which got into the talk of age of consent and things like that. Second, you may disagree with the religious beliefs of others, but that doesn't give you the right to be a dick.
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    ChicagoCruise Well-Known Member

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    Too many of these threads have taken a turn for the worse lately.
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    Vibe New Member

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    ignorance is bliss.
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    SaberJ2X Lurk MOAR

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    in puerto rico consent is 14y/o, but the buffer is 4 years

    I dunno what's the big deal, my father was 14 years older than my mother...
    imho I don't see what's so wrong... I've been in a relation with a girl younger than me and her parents were all fine with it...

    in Puerto Rico... but I'm mild mannered (not on a ego trip), like to be in my house, don't smoke or drugs... etc etc.

    funny parents get all happy when their girl finds a guy with a bit of money... they shouldn't pressure...

    lol... I've been all over the range with girls...

    1 was, 6 years older than me, 4 years older than me, 1 year older, 2 3 years younger than me, and one... erm... 9...

    and they all don't know what they want in life... and they lived by peer pressure
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    Salty_Dog Old Fart

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    I'm old enough to be his father. :D
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    MacktasticSlick TRD whore with 36,000 posts, bitch

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    I say just talk to her about the things you're asking us, then sit down with her folks and yours, have a big powwow and get it all out in the open from the very beginning. If they're cool with it, then more power to you. But if one side or the other has some opposition to you two being together, I say respect their wishes, because as they say, there's tons of fish in the sea. She may be cute and all, you might really like her, but you can never really tell if things will work out in the long run. Generally speaking, you're still kids, especially to be taking things like religion into consideration for your relationship to be based on. If it works, more power to you, man, and if it doesn't, there's gonna be another one that'll come along and blow your mind more than her. And the next one might not care about religion or anything like that, which I think would be better suited to your tastes, from what I can tell.

    /my $0.02
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    e_andree E

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    You stated it as fact to him. And generally speaking, if one party is an adult and the other is a minor, you are safe in majority of states unless the age difference is too large.

    Regardless, hes from Australia.

    Half wits? You havent shown that you have any brains in your fucking head so you have room to talk.

    And all atheists are half wits? Because they dont agree with your views? Talk about ignorance. Youre the epitome of ignorance buddy.

    (and as far as I can see, there are no atheists in this thread, so reading comprehension needs some work on your part)
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    ok enough fighting guys ... back to the point ... whats up with the chick any updates?
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    hey guys, WOW lol looks like ive caused some controversy lol. alright, so i AUSTRALIA which is where we live, there is no real laws on relationship ages. however for sex, the female has to be at least 16 and the male has to be at least 18 (however that part is never really looked at). She has told me that even if i was 18, her parents wudnt care if we dated, as they do not look at age difference, but whether we are right for eachother.

    A problem that is facing us is that because she is so religious, she goes to youth every saturday and church sunday, sunday is also their "family day". (this is strange to me, because my type of family, and all my mates, dont really have a family day)

    Pretty much if i did date her, we wouldnt have sex till she was 16, or maybe until even later (depending on how well she wants to follow her religion). Shes christian btw, incase i didnt mention that.

    Thank you guys for all your advice, FOLKEN who said i should ask my parents has a good point however, by posting it on here, it means i can get even more thoughts on it instead of the one sided view that my parents would give (they would look at what THEY want for ME instead of what I want for ME) i know i know, they might have the best opinion or whatever, however it is MY life (look at it from the point of view as someone telling you what THEY want done with YOUR car and you have to do it).

    This is a massive post sorry but just wanted to say thanks ect. and keep your thoughts coming, i believe this is quite a good discussionary topic, and your all really helping me out heaps. thanks.
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    GSE21tuner Formerly rollatuner110. Representing AZLexus.club

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    You're the super mod here. I think it's hilarious that he's dancing with the ban hammer here. I'm surprised it hasn't struck yet. The Ban Hammer Strikes Back. :ninjastea:p
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    e_andree E

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    Nah- freedom of speech or some bullshit like that I guess :) Though this isnt a democracy, so you do have a point haha
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    but use this "hammer" xD
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    GSE21tuner Formerly rollatuner110. Representing AZLexus.club

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    Go S&M on his ass with that paddle. lol
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    bennyboi9 Well-Known Member

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    and this has now gone off topic. lasted a while i think. good job.
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    SaberJ2X Lurk MOAR

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    you can post and re-rail the thread :p
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    yeah pretty sure im gonna try to make it happen with her. im going to church with her next weekend, so ill be meeting her parents most likely. She also goes to youth, which i guess i may go to, and meet her friends.. maybe lol. i just want to get in her parents good books and actually start the relationship. I swear, i drink, i smoke, i smoke up, but im also a university student, i have a job and ive got a car. im actually a really nice person, i just like to enjoy myself lol. so wish me luck on meeting her rents, hopefully they arent bad :)
    does anyone here have kids? maybe give me a few tips on what to say and what not to say. no obvious stuff though lol
    peace.
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    Salty_Dog Old Fart

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    Uh, Australia has states too.

    New South Wales, Queensland, South Australia, Tasmania, Victoria, Western Australia, Northern Territory and the Australian Capital Territory.

    I imagine their state laws vary just like ours.

    Ooops! Slipped off topic again.
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    e_andree E

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    not sure what your point is.....wasnt inferring that the law was the same across the entire country.
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    its_ikon FIRST widebody

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    i said this thread is a waste, but when it got to age of consent i added my comment. i am hardly going to waste my time giving him advice when he's just trying to get a higher post count. what makes atheists half wits and what do you consider yourself?
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    seems like you're doing too much for this girl but do you :)
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    UPDATE!

    Well, she asked her parents if she could go over mine.
    First question her mum asked: how old is he?
    Second question: Is he christian?

    As you may have guessed, the answers did not please her mother, nor father, nor sister, nor her 20 year old brothers. fml.

    So, ive told her to tell her parents that i would really like to meet them.

    I think its strange that they're worried about me, even though they have a druggy living with them =S

    Ahh fml.
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    SaberJ2X Lurk MOAR

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    HA HA...

    welcome to real life
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